70: Can You Ever Change What You Want?

The heart wants what it wants. Can it ever change? Moya and Ash talk about what to do with their impossible desires. Plus: Britain’s drinking problems, and advice for a gay man whose female bestie has ditched him.

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Music by Matt Huxley.

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