If I Speak...

Inspired by Moya’s big move, Ash wonders what the necessary ingredients are to turn a house share into a home. Plus, advice for a listener whose friend is infatuated with her lecturer. Email your missed connections and dilemmas to [email protected] Music by Matt Huxley.

Has modern life killed off spontaneity in everything from dating to holidays? Plus: advice for a listener who’s wondering why an old friend isn’t more excited to be his best man.

Moya comes to a big realisation about dating, plus a new batch of your Missed Connections.

Does knowing your attachment style make life any easier? Plus advice for a listener who fears losing touch with family.

Can Moya trust her gut on a big life decision? Plus, a listener confused about their lifelong lack of sex.

Ash and Moya dedicate a whole show to solving their listeners' problems, from age-gap relationships to dating revenge.

Prompted by Kendrick’s anthemic Drake diss, Ash explains why this is the summer of the hater.

Moya and Ash talk about the lure of astrology and discuss their best anti-procrastination techniques.

A big theory prompted by a wardrobe clearout, and a dilemma about dating while living with parents.

Nicola Dinan, author of Bellies, talks to Moya and Ash about why we crave external validation.

Moya and Ash talk to Chimene Suleyman, author of The Chain, about uncovering her ex-boyfriend's secrets.

Does the body keep the score? Ash and Moya explore the border between grief and trauma.