121: Is It Time to Stop Height-Shaming Men?
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
Ash and Moya talk about men’s self-image and whether short kings really do lose out in the dating market.
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What Does Self-Knowledge Look Like? Reading Marcus Aurelius
Nadia Idle, Keir Milburn and Jeremy Gilbert
Get your head around the best-selling self-help book of all time.
120: Help! I’m Dreading Moving to the Suburbs With My Partner
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
Ash and Moya get stuck into a mailbag full of your dilemmas.
119: I Know I Should Forgive My Enemies… But What If I Don’t Want To?
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
A brush with an old enemy brings up big questions about letting go and moving on.
Are You Resilient Enough to Face the Future?
Keir Milburn, Nadia Idle and Jem Gilbert
Can humans and animals flourish in the ruins of capitalism?
118: Can a Hen Party Ever Be Chic?
Moya Lothian-McLean and Ash Sarkar
‘Tis the season! Moya and Ash explore the etiquette of the modern wedding.
117: Is Screen Addiction Ruining Our Connection to Art?
Moya Lothian-McLean and Ash Sarkar
Moya wonders if addiction and dependency are the best framework for understanding modern society.
116: I Can’t Stop Worrying About Money. Is There a Way Out?
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
Moya tunes into the background hum of money worries. Plus: when to let go of a long-term romantic hangup.
What Does Fascist Art Look Like? Reading Walter Benjamin
Jem Gilbert, Nadia Idle and Keir Milburn
Join our close reading of a foundational text of 20th century media theory.
115: Help! My Partner Has Been Hiding Huge Debts From Me
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
Ash has a big theory about the crisis that’s stopping us from connecting. Plus: a dilemma about financial infidelity.
114: Why We Can’t Let Go of the Girl Boss
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
Moya asks how we should make sense of entrepreneur Emma Grede and the success of her book, Start With Yourself.
Who Still Has the Power to Shock?
Keir Milburn, Nadia Idle and Jeremy Gilbert
From macro economics to modern art to punk rock, how shock has shaped the past century.
113: Should I Go ‘No Contact’ With My Parents?
Ash Sarkar & Moya Lothian-McLean
How do our elders understand this epidemic of estrangement?
112: Should You Chase a Holiday Romance?
Ash Sarkar and Moya Lothian-McLean
Ash and Moya have advice for a listener chasing romance. Plus: where do we draw the line between safety and freedom?
Are We Living Through a New Era of British Weirdness?
Keir Milburn and Jeremy Gilbert
Ley lines, weird walks, standing stones: a vision of modern Britain?
111: Do We Need More Women Mentors?
Ash Sarkar and Moya Lothian-McLean
Ash and Moya are reunited and ready to answer a mystery question, inspired by Lena Dunham’s memoir.
110: How Andrew Tate Poisoned a Generation of Young Men
Moya Lothian-McLean and Ash Sarkar
We’re republishing our 2024 interview with the authors of Clown World.
109: How Can I Tell My Parents I’m a Stripper? Your Dilemmas Solved W/ Shon Faye
Moya Lothian-McLean
Love in Exile author Shon Faye joins Moya to answer to your dilemmas.